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crab legs and steak

last night we had a “welcome” cookout for some of the new guys replacing us.  crab legs, steaks, non-alcoholic beers, music and a fire pit.  felt like an old college gathering minus a big headache the next day.  i even got to sleep late for a couple of hours. 

we started taking the new guys out on a few missions the past couple of days in an effort to slowly and deliberately hand over command.  yesterday i had a couple ride in my hummer with me and a few of my squad members.  as we left the gate i said my prayer, as i've done from the start, and cranked up some “mood music” on a small cd player/speaker combo. i couldn't help but notice a difference in their composure.  made me think back to the first time i left the wire and wonder if i had the same look on my face.  i said what i could to ease the tension and calm their nerves. 

as we rolled through near-by city, i heard some of the same comments i made only months earlier.  how they couldn't believe the iraqis lived like they do, how the city was so nasty and how the children ran beside the hummer, waving and cheering.  i noticed how de-sensitized i had became over the course of this deployment.  it also made me think of our accomplishments over the previous year.  yes, my platoon and i have definitely done our part to make this country a safer place riding it of over 78,000 lbs of explosive ordinance. no question.  but have we, as a coalition, made this country a better place and eliminated a considerable amount of insurgents and terrorists? by no means am i confused about our occupation in this country.  it is just as we near the end you can't help but wonder some of these things.  who knows?  you can only pray you have made a difference for the good.

bc

Published Wednesday, December 15, 2004 4:10 AM by cipriani

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cipriani said:

Hey Sweetie
I truly believe that you and all the others have made a difference in the lives of many. You have done your part and now it is time to come back home. As much as the Iraqi people may need your service, I need you more. Know that you all have done your best and your job is nearly over... Be careful these last few days, hurry home, and remember I love you more than anything.
Love Your Wife,
Amanda
December 15, 2004 8:17 AM
 

cipriani said:

I know you all have done your part. I for one appreciate each and everyone that is over there. Now, it's time for you all to come back home and enjoy your family, a reward for a job well done. I have two cousins that have just arrived over there. If you happen to see them, tell them their cousin, says hi, stay safe, and we love them very much. They are Larry and Kiah Moncier. I would appreciate it. You stay safe and get home soon to be with your loved ones. Happy Holidays to all.
December 15, 2004 8:26 AM
 

cipriani said:

Thanks for being there for the new guys. It means a lot to us at home, but I know it especially is important for them. And also, I think the coalition forces are making a difference. I think any big changes or differences won't be evident immediately, but rather over a longer period of time. And as you know, good things aren't all over the media. So thanks for what you did and are doing, because in my heart I know all of you over there are making a difference in the lives of many.
December 15, 2004 11:51 AM
 

cipriani said:

HEY THERE,
ITS GOOD TO HEAR YOU BREAKING THE NEW GUYS IN AND TEACHING THEM THE ROPES..THEY ARE IN FOR A LONG HAUL AND EVERYTHING YOU CAN SHOW THEM AND TEACH THEM WILL BE A BIG HELP... ITS ALSO GOOD TO HEAR BECAUSE THAT MEANS A DAY CLOSER TO YOU COMING HOME..WE THINK OF YOU OFTEN AND PRAY FOR YOU DAILY...WITH THE HOLIDAY COMING CLOSER I KNOW ITS VERY HARD FOR YOUR WIFE , PARENTS AND SIBLINGS.. IM SURE THE ONLY THING THEY WANT OR HAVE ASKED FOR IS YOU TO BE HERE.. CANT SAY THAT I BLAME THEM ...BUT YOU WILL BE HERE BEFORE WE ALL KNOW IT...UNTIL THAT TIME YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND HANDS TOGETHER -KEEP SAYING THOSE PRAYERS AND WE WILL DO OUR PART HERE.. JARED SAYS HI AND HE MISSES YOU , HE WILL ASK ME ALL THE TIME.. "HAVE YOU HEARD FROM LITTLE BILLY?" I BELIEVE YOU ARE HIS HERO AND OURS TOO .. TELL ALL THE GUYS HOW PROUD WE ARE OF ALL OF YOU AND AGAIN GET HOME!!!!!!
LOVE AUNT LISA
December 15, 2004 1:51 PM
 

cipriani said:

Hey honey!
Just wanted to let you know that no matter what you may think you have definetly done your part and I'm sure you have made an impact on more people than you think. (over there and back here) Anyways, be safe and hurry home. I love you and miss you bunches!
Love,
Tiff
(If you hurry you may actually be able to be here to see your first nephew born! Yeah!)
December 15, 2004 6:45 PM
 

cipriani said:

as the days get closer to coming home they also get longer. this year has been a different year for all of us. this family has learned to show how much we all love each other. we promised to be honest & not keep things from each other. as i look back it has been a really hard time, & i thought we would never make it. this last month has been the hardest as the holidays are here. some days are worse than the others each is filled with tears. church & the things we usally do as a family are unbearable when you have a child missing from them. each day will pass but some things you can't do different no matter how hard you try. we have agreed this year to open 1 present on christmas, & we will keep all others till a sgt, billy returns home than we will have our christmas together. to some this doesn't seem right, but to us it is the only way, after all that is what it is all about love for each other. i just wish people could understand when they say " you have to carry on for everyone else" that going through the motions isn't that important. maybe to some it doesn't make sense but to us it is a way of coping. to those that have a love there starting out you are in my prayers. don't worry so much how well you do in others eyes, do what you have to so you can get through the days ahead, because life is different for you now. but also remember that there are a lot of good things your love one will also go through just as my billy has learned. so all the things you go through, for your soldier to be a stronger better & loving person is a good thing.
Billy as time gets closer remember that we love you & miss you. i would give the world to have one hug right now.
love mama
December 19, 2004 3:14 PM
 

cipriani said:

Dear Billy,
I am so excited to logon & read that you are preparing your replacements and soon to be home. I think about you and pray for you everyday, and will continue as I am sure that these days must feel the longest. Stay focused & alert (avoid STD) & do your best to reassure the replacements. Let us know when you're given your date. Paolo & I will do all we can to be in NC for your homecoming. You are our hero too....we miss you & can't wait to see you!!!!
December 21, 2004 11:31 PM
 

cipriani said:

HEY BILLY,
WELL ITS CHRISTMAS EVE AND ALL WE WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS YOUR SAFE RETURN ... I AM SURE IT WILL BE FILLED.. MAYBE NOT TONIGHT BUT SOON.. HOPE YOU ARE DOING WELL AND KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL THINKING OF YOU AS IM SURE YOU ARE OF US ALSO ... THERE WILL BE MANY MORE HOLIDAYS WHERE YOU WILL BE WITH US SO IT WONT BE SO BAD TO MISS THIS ONE..WE LOVE AND MISS YOU- AND ALL OUR PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU AND ALL THE GUYS OVER THERE WITH YOU. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND YOUR HANDS TOGETHER.. SEE YOU SOON ..
LOVE AUNT LISA AND FAMILY
P.S JARED WANTED ME TO TELL YOU THAT HE AKSED SANTA FOR YOU TO COME HOME AND TAKE HIM HUNTING.. (LOL) I THOUGHT THAT WAS SWEET ..
GOD BLESS YOU ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 24, 2004 1:56 PM
 

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April 19, 2005 1:52 AM
 

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May 11, 2005 12:12 PM
 

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June 2, 2005 7:36 AM
 

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